1.    12 Steps of making a marriage an art Words of wisdom!

“A GOOD MARRIAGE MUST BE CREATED “

1. In the marriage, the little things are the big things…

2. It is never being too old to hold hands.

3. It is remembering to say “I love you” at least once each day.

4. It is never going to sleep angry.

5. It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.

6. It is standing together and facing the world.

7. It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.

8. It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.

9. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.

10. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.

11. It is a common search for the good and beautiful.

12. It is not only marrying the right person, it is being the right partner.

2. Congratulations and Welcome to Cyprus

On behalf of the Thomas Cook Weddings team, we would like to welcome you to the beautiful Island of Cyprus.

We are aware of the many companies are offering wedding packages and therefore place a high value in your decision to choose Thomas Cook for your wedding. We are confident that you will not be disappointed!

We have been offering weddings in Cyprus successfully for eight years now and the market is growing with each year that comes. Our Overseas and UK staff have a wealth of experience in operating wedding programmes which helps to ensure that your big day runs smoothly, without any worry and stress.

We have chosen our Thomas Cook wedding Coordinators with great care as they are the key to making your big day run without a hitch, and therefore take great pride in their experience and expertise in organising all aspects of your wedding here in Cyprus.

Once again thank you for choosing Thomas Cook for your wedding and we look forward to seeing you again for your anniversary.

Kind regards

Thomas Cook Wedding Team – Cyprus

3. Your questions answered!

What happens now?

An appointment will have been made for you to meet with yourThomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator to discuss all aspects of your wedding. From getting your licence, to arranging all your wedding extras such as Photography, Transport, Flowers and even your final celebration of becoming Mr & Mrs, not forgetting that all important wedding reception.

Please feel free to air any concerns and requests that you may have about your big day as we want to make it as special as it can be for you. We are also here to take all the stress and worry away from you so you can sit back, relax and enjoy your holiday, work on that all-important suntan and feel confident that everything is in hand.

Any time you are worried about anything please do not hesitate to ask your wedding Co-ordinator who will do everything she can to put your mind at rest. How do we get our wedding licence?

At your initial meeting with your Thomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator, she will check that you have all of the relevant documents needed in orderforyou to get your license (details of which can be found on next page). Your wedding Co-ordinator will collect the enclosed completed particulars form from you for the Town Hall to prepare your licence. Your wedding Co-ordinator will then confirm your appointment with the Town Hall and meet you at the relevant town hall for the appointment.

For Town Hall and Monastery Church weddings you will need to give the names and passport numbers of two people who can witness the wedding for you. They must be over 18 years old, they can be your relatives or friends. Don’t worry if you have no one accompanying you for the wedding, your Thomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator and a Town Hall / Church official can be your witnesses.

4. YourTown Hall Declaration Appointment

The easiest way for you to get to the Town Hall is by taxi. Your hotel reception or wedding co-ordinator will be happy to arrange one for you. Your Thomas Cook wedding co-ordinator will meet you at the Town Hall and accompany you throughout the appointment.

If you do not hold a British Passport please contact the weddings department as extra documents are required.

The documents that you will need to bring to the Town Hall with you are:

• Passports

• Birth Certificates

• Affidavits

• Decree Absolute (if divorced)

• Deed poll proof of name change (if applicable)

• Spouses death certificate and marriage certificate (if widowed)

• €281.92 in cash in local currency for the licence

• The additional charge if you are having your wedding in your hotel, will be approximately €180 for the registrar to perform the service in the hotel

• A photocopy of your 2 witnesses passports

You will be asked to sign some paperwork, firstly a declaration, which is similar to your affidavits to say that you are free and single to marry. The other is your particular’s form (which will have been re-typed in the Town Hall’s format.) Please check these very carefully for any mistakes. If any have been made, then please correct and then sign. It is vital that the information on this form is correct, as this is the information that will appear on your marriage certificate. If you sign this form and it has incorrect information then your wedding certificate will be incorrect and cannot be changed.

You will then be asked to hand over your documents. The Town Hall will keep your original affidavits for their files. You will then pay for your licence. If you are having a civil wedding. If you are having a Church wedding then a Certificate of Notification will be issued to you to pass on to the reverend.

You will need 2 witnesses for your wedding. They must be over 18 and can be related to you. You will need to supply the full names and passport numbers of each person and a photocopy of there passports. Don’t worry if you have no one accompanying you for the wedding as your Thomas Cook Wedding Co-ordinator and a Town Hall or Church official can act as your witnesses.

Important: Document requirements shown above are a guide only and subject to change – you must refer to the weddings brochure for full details and up to date information will be advised to you at the time of booking by our weddings department.

5. Stag and Hen nights

Here at Thomas Cook we know how stressful planning a wedding is, the dress, the reception, the rings! That’s why you have invested in us to take the pressure off you, by booking the package which includes your own wedding co – ordinator. So let us help again and take it one step further by arranging your stag and hen do’s in Cyprus.

However you would like to celebrate your last night before your wedding bliss begins, whether it’s cruising the Mediterranean Sea on our luxury catamaran topping up your tans to enhance your wedding photos, or hitting the town for a fun packed evening sampling some of the finest restaurants in the world or drinking in the finest themed bars in the Mediterranean.

Pampering Why? Because you’re worth it… You hen girls deserve to be looked after and treated like a stars, and that is why Thomas Cook have these fantastic packages to offer you,

Package A Luxury manicure Must have Facial Back and shoulder massage - From €70 Euros

Package B Luxury pedicure File and Nail Polish Rejuvenate facial (45 mins) Eyebrow shaping - From €90 Euros

Package C Deluxe facial Nail extensions Indian Head massage File and Toe polish - From €110 Euros

Package D Full Thalgo body scrub Rejuvenate facial (45mins)

Manicure and hand massage Aromatherapy back & shoulder massage - From €140 Euros Complimentary refreshments will be provided

Private Catamaran Hire Charter your own luxury private catamaran, the perfect way to share with family and friends. Top up your tans for the big day whilst cruising along the Mediterranean Sea, a totally stress free day. - From €1320

Napa By Night Join yourThomas Cook wedding co- ordinator for a night on the town. You will be taken to 6 of the best bars in the heart of Ayia Napa where you will be given a special shot in each bar!! There will be games for those who are up for a challenge. If you are still partying we will take you to one of the hottest nightclubs on the island free of charge. This is an unmissable night for all you stag and hens. - From €10 Euros

Meal Night Be treated like kings and queens at 3 of the best restaurants in Ayia Napa and Protaras with a 3 course meal including a complimentary bottle of champagne to get you in the mood for a fantastic night out. - From €30 Euros

Don’t waste any time to book these fantastic Stag and Hen packages. To book please see your Thomas Cook Wedding Co-oridnator

1. Do we see the Wedding Location prior to our wedding?

If you are having a Town Hall wedding, after your appointment, your wedding co-ordinator will show you the room / area that the ceremony will take place in and advise you where you will be standing.

THERE IS A COPY OF THE WEDDING VOWS FOR YOU IN THIS BOOKLET. DON’T WORRY ABOUT HAVING TO MEMORISE THE VOWS, AS YOU WILL REPEAT THEM AFTER THE MARRIAGE OFFICER.

We are having a Church Wedding, what Happens at the appointment?

At this appointment, you will get the chance to meet the church co-ordinator and Anglican Vicar who will be conducting your ceremony. You will have a short interview with the vicar to establish your religious beliefs / backgrounds, it also gives them a chance to find out a litle bit about you to make the service more personal to yourselves. He will also go through the vows with you. With the church co-ordinatoryou will have a discussion about music choices for the ceremony and again they will find out a little bit about yourselves.

AS THE INTERVIEW IS BETWEEN YOU AND THE CHURCH, ANDTHEREFORE PERSONAL, YOUR THOMAS COOK WEDDING COORDINATOR WILL NOT BE ABLE TO ATTEND.

2. WEDDING VOWS, CHURCH CEREMONY

In the presence of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, we have come together to witness the marriage of

…………….And……………., to pray for

God’s blessing on them, to share their joy and to celebrate their love.

Marriage is gift of God in creation through which man and wife may know the grace of God. It is given that as man and woman grow together in love and trust, they shall be united with one another in heart, body and mind, as Christ is united with his bride, the church.

The gift of marriage brings husband and wife together in the delight and tenderness of sexual union and joyful commitment to the end of their lives. It is given as the foundation of family life in which children are (born and) nurtured and in which each member of the family, in good times and come together to witness the marriage of

…………….And……………., to pray for

God’s blessing on them, to share their joy and to celebrate their love.

Marriage is gift of God in creation through which man and wife may know the grace of God. It is given that as man and woman grow together in love and trust, they shall be united with one another in heart, body and mind, as Christ is united with his bride, the church.

The gift of marriage brings husband and wife together in the delight and tenderness of sexual union and joyful commitment to the end of their lives. It is given as the foundation of family life in which children are (born and) nurtured and in which each member of the family, in good times and in bad, may find strenght, companionship and comfort, and grow to maturity in love.

Marriage is a way of life made holy by God and blessed by the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ with those celebrating a wedding at Cana in Galilee. Marriage is a sign of unity and loyalty which all should uphold and honour. It enriches society and strengthens community. No one should enter into it lightly or selfishly but reverently and responsibly in the sight of almighty God.

………..And………..Are now to enter this way of life. They will each give their consent to the other and make solemn vows, and in token they will (each) give and receive a ring. We pray with them that Holy Spirit will guide and strengthen them, that they may fulfil God’s purposes for the whole of their earthly life together.

3. What wedding extras are available in Cyprus?

We have put together an impressive list of wedding extras, all of which are detailed in this booklet.

You can be confident that the suppliers we use have been selected for their expertise, professionalism, excellent customer service and competitive price.

You do not have to worry about picking up flowers or cakes, as these will all be delivered to your hotel and/or reception venue. You do not have to worry about the transport not turning up on time or the photographer knowing where your wedding is, as your Thomas Cook wedding co-ordinator will ensure all details have been passed onto them.

3. What happens on the Wedding day?

All of the extras you have ordered through your Thomas Cook wedding co-ordinator, will have already been confirmed to you. So you will know what time your flowers will arrive on your big day and also when your car is coming for you.

Your wedding co-ordinator will be at your chosen wedding Venue Approx 20minutes before, to help let your guest’s know when they need to be seated, and to tell the groom where he needs to be stood. Your wedding co-ordinator will then wait for the blushing bride to arrive and will assist her to join her husband to be.

Once the ceremony is finished the wedding co-ordinator, will leave you to relax enjoy your photographes and the rest of your planned day.

4. Wedding Vows, Civil Ceremony

“You,…………………….and………………………

Know that by your simultaneous consent which is given publicly and formally in my presence and in the presence of the persons now here, accept each other as your lawful spouse and with the confirmation of this fact by your signature you contact a lawful marriage for all the purposes of civil law. You should futher know that your marriage cannot be dissolved during your lifetime except by a valid judgement of a court.

If either of you (before the death of the other) contracts a marriage while this one remains undissolved he / she commits the offence of bigamy and is liable to the consequences provided by the law. TO FIRST THE GROOM FOLLOWED BY THE BRIDE:

I CALL UPON ALL PERSONS HERE PRESENT TO WITNESS THAT I………………….ACCEPT YOU …………………AS MY LAWFUL SPOUSE, TO LOVE AND TO SHARE WITH YOU AS FROM THIS DAY MOMENTS OF JOY AND SORROW, WEALTH AND POVERTY, HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS THOUGHOUT OUR LIFE UNTIL DEATH DO SEPARATE US”.

On the basis of equality you should face together all the problems and all the difficulties of life. Together you should shoulder the burdens of marriage each one according to your possibilities. You have both the right and obligation to take care of the up bringing and education of your children so that they may become useful citizens with free personalities. Nowsign your marriage certificates.

As from this moment I pronounce you man and wife. You are together by your free consent in matrimony and you owe each other love, fidelity and respect throughout your life. This marriage constitutes the fulfiment of your life and links your destinies on good and rainy days, in happiness and unhappiness, in wealth and poverty, until death do separate you.

5. What wedding extras are available in Cyprus?

We have put together an impressive list of wedding extras, all of which are detailed in this booklet.

You can be confident that the suppliers we use have been selected for their expertise, professionalism, excellent customer service and competitive price.

You do not have to worry about picking up flowers or cakes, as these will all be delivered to your hotel and/or reception venue. You do not have to worry about the transport not turning up on time or the photographer knowing where your wedding is, as your Thomas Cook wedding co-ordinator will ensure all details have been passed onto them.

1. The Price of love

You can’t put a price on love but there are some prices that matters. After much research, it has been found that the cost of a wedding in the UK is more expensive than abroad! No wonder you chose to get married abroad! Take a look at the price panel below, and be amazed at the difference of all costs here compared to those of the UK.

	EURO (€)	UK PRICES ( £ STG)
Make up	€45 – €70	£90 – £120
Bridal Hair	€60 – €85	£90 – £100
Brides Flowers	€70 – €140	£100 – £150
Bridesmaid’s Flowers	€40 – €85	£85 – £125
Wedding Transport	€100 -  €520	£500 – £1000
Photography	€500 – €750	£850 – £1500
Video / DVD	€500 – €700	£550 – £1000
Wedding Cake	€85 – €345	£300 – £600

*Please note all prices are approximate

2. Wedding Do’s and Dont’s

How to have a beautiful stress free wedding.

DO splash out on the things you simply can’t do without.

DON’T ask Uncle Pat to take your wedding photos. Your wedding photos are biggest reminders of your wedding day so hire a professional.

DO choose a bouquet that compliments your wedding colour schene. The bouquet is important as an accessory but it shouldn’t overpoweryour wedding dress.

DON’T go for a completely different look on your wedding day. Your man loves way you are so keep your makeup natural.

DON’T forget to arrive in style in a beautiful wedding car or horse & carriage.

DO alter the custom of giving away the bride to suit your situation.

DO go for a cake to suit your taste buds. More couples are having flavoured sponge cakes such as chocolate.

DON’T get obsessed with smaller details. There is no point worrying about everything being perfect. Instead, sit back and relax.

DO take time to soak up the atmospere with your new husband or wife. Distance yourself from the party for a couple of minutes at various intervals to reconnect and simply enjoy basking in the limelight of your special day.

DO take advantage of your Thomas Cook wedding co-ordinator’s knowledge and expertise so that you can feel confident that your day will run smoothly and totally stress free.

FINALLY

DON’T FORGET TO SMILE AND REMEMBER WHAT THE OCCASION IS REALLY ABOUT. THE WEDDING DAY WILL PASS QUICKLY, BUT ULTIMATELY YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED BECAUSE YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER AND YOU CAN’T WAIT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIVES TOGETHER.

3. When do we get to meet the photographer and what will the quality of the photographs be like?

The photographer will meet you at your chosen wedding location on the day and will take photographs before, during and after the ceremony at the location. They will follow a set program, however if you have any specific photographs that you would like taking other than what has been taken then please do not hesitate to ask, as the photographers are very flexible and aim to please. Your wedding Co-ordinator will arrange to drop off your proofs to the hotel for you to browse through a few days after your wedding day From these proofs you will need to select the chosen quantity booked in your package and these will be enlarged for your wedding album.

If you require any additional photographs apart from the ones booked or maybe you want enlargements, or any members of your family or friends want any copies then this can also be arranged. You will also be given options of buying all the proofs and negatives and also being able to purchase your pictures on DVD. You have the choice of black and white photographs as well as colour ones.

The proofs will be left with you for a day, then your wedding Co-ordinator will collect the order, and the photographer will make upyour order of photographs. They will then deliver your completed album back to your hotel, however at busy times it could be the night before you go home. You are certain to take home some fantastic photographs which will make your wedding day even more memorable.

4. What will the Dvd be like? How long will it last? And will it be UK compatible?

The cameraman/women will meet you at your chosen wedding location and will have the same routine as the photographer.

The video usually lasts approximately 15-30 minutes depending on the type of wedding and number of people attending.

We also offer a full day and half day video / DVD package which are made to suit your requirements. All of these products are UK compatible.

If you want extra copies for friends or family then these can be requested and will be delivered to the hotel along with the original. If you would prefer the video not edited which will coverall footage taken this is also available please remember this will not include any music but you may find some funny Clips, you get all of this also on DVD.

5. Do I have a choice of flowers for my bouquet?

Yes! The florists have put together a selection of fresh flowers for you to choose from for your bouquet, buttonholes, bridesmaids bouquets and flowers for hair. Your wedding Co-ordinator will be able to show you pictures of bouquets and help you if you are not sure of what style to choose. However if you have something specific you would like that isn’t detailed in the weddings extras booklet, then please do not hesitate to ask and we can ask the florist if it is available in Cyprus, or if you have a picture to show then that would be even better. We can also arrange for flowers on the tables at your reception, standing arrangements for the wedding location and any additional flowers that you may want.

Bouquets, Table decorations or a basket of fresh flowers, what ever you need for your special day, we’ll cover all your floral needs. For more information please contact your wedding Co-ordinator.

1. How can we get to the Wedding?

The traditional way is by a decorated wedding car, which is usually a black or white air conditioned 4 seater Mercedes decorated with ribbon for your special day. You can also have a 6 seater decorated car.

However if you are looking for something a little bit different then why not try a romantic Horse & Carriage. (This will depend on where you are staying you may have to go part of the way in a car due to the heat and distance involved).

We can also arrange additional transport for your guests, either a minibus or a coach. The choice is yours, but however you go you will feel like a million dollars as the passing crowd will stop and gaze in awe and motorists toot their horns to leave you in no doubt that this is your Big Day.

* For wedding and private hire please see your wedding co-ordinator.

2. THE ICING ON THE CAKE

After the ceremony it is usually back to the hotel or reception venue for a champagne toast and of course the cutting of the cake.

You will have a choice of cakes including sponge or fruit in a choice of one or two tiers. You could even have one tier fruit and one tier sponge.

Special cakes are available please speak to your Thomas Cook Wedding Co-ordinator.

The cakes are generally white in design and decorated with a floral decoration. However if you have brought your own decoration then please give this to your Thomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator. She will arrange for them to be put on the cake for you.

3. Can you suggest a Hairstylist / Beautician

Yes we can! Most hotels have hair dressing salons in them, which you can use for convenience. Speak to your wedding Co-ordinator who will be able to advise you on what services and facilities the salon can offer.

Your Thomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator will be able to advise you on the options for your self and your wedding party.

The appointments will be made to ensure that you have enough time to get ready and add those finishing touches. If you use the salon in the hotel it is better to make the appointments directly with the salon.

4. WHAT ABOUT THE RECEPTION ? WHAT CHOICES DO I HAVE?

By now the pre wedding jitters should have disappeared, you can relax from the posing and permanent smiles for the photographer and the celebrations can begin!.

No reception is too big or too small and whatever your needs, they can be catered for. Some people choose to have a simple affair, canape’s and champagne, others like to have the full monty with a buffet / sit down meal, bar or waiter service and a disco or band.

You have a few options to choose from.

As you will spend the majority of time in your accommodation it is nice on your big day to get out of the hotel and do something a little bit different, we have put together a selection of ideas for you to choose from.

We have selected some of the best local restaurants, that you can choose from ranging from traditional taverns, chic bistro’s, harbour front restaurants, Mediterranean cuisine and flambe’s. They all offer various different menus and some can even offer entertainment.

Your Thomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator will be able to show you menus and discuss all your requirements with you at your initial meeting and make the best recommendations to you for your party.

Receptions can be held within the hotel, this is purely for convenience and you can discuss your requirements with the food and beverage department within your accommodation.

Exquisite sunsets, sparkling waters, afternoon breezes and stunning coastlines – what could be more romantic than hosting your wedding reception onboard a luxury catamaran? A first class service and UNIQUE venue for a truly memorable event. Cruise along the coastline as the sun sets leaving you with images to relive your special day. All that is left is for you do is sit back, relax and watch your dream come true… Please contact your rep for more information.

Your Thomas Cook wedding Co-ordinator will be able to liaise between you and the reception venue to discuss your requirements with you and go over all the details. What better way to get some even more fantastic memories.

5.Paralimni Municipality

The irresistible natural beauty of the area seems to have been created for those in love. The first sunrise in Europe combines with Hypnotic sunsets, fresh breezy tropical air, tantalizin/li/pbr /DON’T ask Uncle Pat to take your wedding photos. Your wedding photos are biggest reminders of your wedding day so hire a professional.g aroma of local cuisine, all create the romantic climate that is a back drop for a pe/strong[/one_fourth]2. WEDDING VOWS, CHURCH CEREMONY/prfect wedding package designed to make your special Do we get to see the wedding venue strongpday one to remember for a lifetime.

BOOKINGS Tel: +357 23 819 300, +357 23 744 268 fax: +357 23 744 267 e-mail: marriage@paralimni.org.cy http://www.paralimni.org.cy